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		<title>Wedding Anniversary in 3 Weeks</title>
		<link>https://schestowitz.com/Weblog/archives/2026/08/27/wedding-anniversary-in-3-weeks/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2026 06:32:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Roy Schestowitz]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ime flies. It&#8217;s almost the end of the week already! Before too long it&#8217;ll be Sunday (tomorrow night there&#8217;s a match at 8PM), then Bank Holiday, then everyone here will be back to work. The following Sunday marks 2 years since I sued Matthew J. Garrett and Rianne did the same, then some days later [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img title="T" src="/IMG/Caps/t.png" alt="T" align="left" border="0" hspace="0" vspace="4" />ime flies.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s almost the end of the week already! Before too long it&#8217;ll be Sunday (tomorrow night <a href="https://www.mancity.com/fixtures">there&#8217;s a match</a> at 8PM), then Bank Holiday, then everyone here will be back to work. The following Sunday <a href="https://techrights.org/n/2024/09/06/Why_We_Are_Suing_Matthew_J_Garrett_for_Harassment_and_Why_It_s_.shtml">marks 2 years since I sued Matthew J. Garrett</a> and <a href="https://news.tuxmachines.org/n/2024/09/06/Why_Suing_Matthew_J_Garrett_After_Abusing_and_Harassing_My_Husb.shtml">Rianne did the same</a>, then some days later it&#8217;s our wedding anniversary.</p>
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		<title>Away From Keyboard</title>
		<link>https://schestowitz.com/Weblog/archives/2026/08/24/away-from-keyboard/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2026 04:58:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Roy Schestowitz]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday: Offline Birthdays oday at 9AM we&#8217;ll leave the house and won&#8217;t return until it&#8217;s late. No E-mail, no Web surfing, nothing of that sort&#8230; One of the best gifts one can have is peace of mind. Of course I did buy some gifts, but those aren&#8217;t gadgets, they&#8217;re actually useful things.]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Yesterday</strong>: <a href="https://schestowitz.com/Weblog/archives/2026/08/23/offline-birthdays/">Offline Birthdays</a></p>
<p><a href="https://schestowitz.com/Weblog/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/afk.png"><img src="https://schestowitz.com/Weblog/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/afk.png" alt="I don't want to be contacted when away from keyboard" width="520" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-9051" /></a></p>
<p><img title="T" src="/IMG/Caps/t.png" alt="T" align="left" border="0" hspace="0" vspace="4" />oday at 9AM we&#8217;ll leave the house and won&#8217;t return until it&#8217;s late. No E-mail, no Web surfing, nothing of that sort&#8230;</p>
<p>One of the best gifts one can have is peace of mind.</p>
<p>Of course I did buy some gifts, but those aren&#8217;t gadgets, they&#8217;re actually useful things.</p>
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		<title>Training the Birds</title>
		<link>https://schestowitz.com/Weblog/archives/2026/08/12/training-the-birds/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2026 17:43:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Roy Schestowitz]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[T seems like &#8220;Sleepy&#8221; the bird is improving at keeping good balance on the doorknobs and eating the seeds without jumping on the jar and flapping her wings like mad. Unlike &#8220;Bot&#8221; (Bottle) and her friend, &#8220;Sleepy&#8221; is a reasonably recent recruit and she doesn&#8217;t have good table manners. Sometimes she climbs on the doors, [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p><img title="I" src="/IMG/Caps/i.png" alt="I" align="left" border="0" hspace="0" vspace="4" />T seems like &#8220;Sleepy&#8221; the bird is improving at keeping good balance on the doorknobs and eating the seeds <b>without</b> jumping on the jar and flapping her wings like mad. Unlike &#8220;Bot&#8221; (Bottle) and her friend, &#8220;Sleepy&#8221; is a reasonably recent recruit and she doesn&#8217;t have good table manners. Sometimes she climbs on the doors, she is fearless about it, and this used to result in a mess (spillages). We began calling her &#8220;Sweepy&#8221; because she was sweeping the seeds aside instead of eating them properly.</p>
<p>Progress is being made by discouraging bad habits.</p>
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		<title>Happy With the Shell</title>
		<link>https://schestowitz.com/Weblog/archives/2026/08/05/happy-with-the-shell/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Aug 2026 16:35:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Roy Schestowitz]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[began &#8216;breeding&#8217; shells or snails last year. There are now well over 100 of them. They seem happy. I need to feed them more and more over time because their total number continues to increase. To me, they&#8217;re nature near the desk. They have their little colony and they don&#8217;t interfere with anything. I&#8217;ve never [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img title="I" src="/IMG/Caps/i.png" alt="I" align="left" border="0" hspace="0" vspace="4" /> began &#8216;breeding&#8217; shells or snails last year. There are now <a href="http://news.tuxmachines.org/n/2026/07/23/100_Shells.shtml">well over 100 of them</a>. They seem happy. I need to feed them more and more over time because their total number continues to increase. To me, they&#8217;re nature near the desk. They have their little colony and they don&#8217;t interfere with anything. I&#8217;ve never seen even one that is dead&#8230; <em>so far</em>.</p>
<p>How could I have missed this hobby of adorable pets (creatures) all those years?</p>
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		<title>An Overcrowded Planet</title>
		<link>https://schestowitz.com/Weblog/archives/2026/08/05/an-overcrowded-planet/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Aug 2026 07:01:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Roy Schestowitz]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[want to say this without any baseless assumptions made about my intent/ion (in saying so). Planet Earth is overpopulated. There, I&#8217;ve said it. I know few people (in person) who disagree, but many are shy to say so because there&#8217;s some guilt associated with the position, as if one advocates eliminating (or killing) billions of [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://schestowitz.com/Weblog/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/zimbabwean-soldier-during-protest.jpg"><img src="https://schestowitz.com/Weblog/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/zimbabwean-soldier-during-protest.jpg" alt="Zimbabwean Soldier During Protest" width="520" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-8635" /></a></p>
<p><img title="I" src="/IMG/Caps/i.png" alt="I" align="left" border="0" hspace="0" vspace="4" /> want to say this <em>without</em> any baseless assumptions made about my intent/ion (in saying so). Planet Earth is overpopulated. There, I&#8217;ve said it. I know few people (in person) who disagree, but many are shy to say so because there&#8217;s some guilt associated with the position, as if one advocates eliminating (or killing) billions of people.</p>
<p>Last weekend I spoke to my father about <a href="https://techrights.org/n/2026/07/28/What_I_Explained_to_Police_About_Blackmail_and_Death_Threats_vi.shtml">how police deals with death threats</a>. Overcrowded nations, he explained, cannot keep up with most death threats. In the past, he said, when the global population was a lot smaller (when he was a kid in 1960 the number of people was a lot smaller; see <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Population_growth">population size graphs</a>, in the 1960s there were 3 billion known humans, now we approach 10 billion!) the cops could more or less deal with all cases in a timely fashion. Now the police is understaffed, underfunded, and ill-equipped.</p>
<p>It bodes not positively (to say the least) for our future. Controlling &#8220;the masses&#8221; is getting harder and harder. Law enforcement isn&#8217;t keeping up.</p>
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		<title>Rianne&#8217;s Birthday Coming Next</title>
		<link>https://schestowitz.com/Weblog/archives/2026/07/29/riannes-birthday-coming-next/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2026 06:13:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[T seems like August has already begun and Rianne&#8217;s birthday is a few weeks away. Today we expect some publicity and tomorrow we have an election here. From what I can gather, the platform I&#8217;ve promoted for decades is winning the battle of attrition, which means more &#8220;mainstreaming&#8221;. I plan to keep this blog increasingly [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://schestowitz.com/Weblog/wp-content/uploads/2026/07/rianne-laptop.jpg"><img src="https://schestowitz.com/Weblog/wp-content/uploads/2026/07/rianne-laptop.jpg" alt="Christmas Under COVID-19" width="520" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-8512" /></a></p>
<p><img title="I" src="/IMG/Caps/i.png" alt="I" align="left" border="0" hspace="0" vspace="4" />T seems like August has already begun and Rianne&#8217;s birthday is a few weeks away. Today we expect <a href="https://schestowitz.com/Weblog/archives/2026/07/28/tomorrow-judgment/">some publicity</a> and tomorrow we have <a href="http://news.tuxmachines.org/n/2026/07/28/Getting_More_Political.shtml">an election here</a>.</p>
<p>From what I can gather, the platform I&#8217;ve promoted for decades is <a href="http://techrights.org/n/2026/07/27/GNU_Linux_Rises_Some_More_Internationally_statCounter_Now_Estim.shtml">winning the battle of attrition</a>, which means more &#8220;mainstreaming&#8221;.</p>
<p>I plan to keep this blog increasingly active for the foreseeable future. It was mostly neglected for two decades because of <em>Techrights</em>.</p>
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		<title>My Lovely Valentine</title>
		<link>https://schestowitz.com/Weblog/archives/2026/02/12/my-lovely-valentine/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Feb 2026 10:28:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Roy Schestowitz]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[T was 15 years ago when I first met Rianne. It was at a birthday party of a friend of hers and a friend of mine. We started chatting randomly and soon figured out we had a lot in common, including our Computer Science background. A lot of time has passed since then and I [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p><img title="I" src="/IMG/Caps/i.png" alt="I" align="left" border="0" hspace="0" vspace="4" />T was 15 years ago when I first met Rianne. It was at a birthday party of a friend of hers and a friend of mine. We started chatting randomly and soon figured out we had a lot in common, including our Computer Science background.</p>
<p>A lot of time has passed since then and I do my best to be a good husband. This coming Saturday we&#8217;ll do something special but modest. </p>
<p>I should note that the reason Microsofters try to put me and my wife in prison [1-3] is because I did the right thing and protected my wife, whereas the Microsofters would just strangle women or worse.</p>
<p>Some people, instead of trying to become better human beings, try to become better sociopaths.</p>
<p>_____</p>
<ol>
<li><a href="http://techrights.org/n/2026/02/11/Matthew_J_Garrett_Has_Just_Sent_a_Threat_to_Put_My_Wife_and_I_i.shtml"> Matthew J. Garrett Has Just Sent a Threat to Put My Wife and I in Prison Because His Own Spouse Says He&#8217;s a Rapist</a></li>
<li><a href="http://techrights.org/n/2026/02/11/Threats_From_Former_Red_Hat_Now_IBM_Staff_While_IBM_s_Likely_Ac.shtml"> Threats From &#8216;Former&#8217; Red Hat (Now IBM) Staff While IBM&#8217;s Likely Accounting Fraud Attracts Public Scrutiny</a></li>
<li><a href="http://techrights.org/n/2026/02/12/Put_Criminals_in_Prison_Not_People_Who_Report_the_Crimes.shtml"> Put Criminals in Prison, Not People Who Report the Crimes</a></li>
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		<title>The Last of Us is Getting Married</title>
		<link>https://schestowitz.com/Weblog/archives/2023/03/26/everyone-married/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Mar 2023 16:44:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Roy Schestowitz]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[spoke to my sister today (that&#8217;s her above) one last time before her wedding tomorrow. It&#8217;s hard to believe how fast people grow up. She&#8217;s now managing a team, doing programming while using Debian 11, just like me. Tomorrow she&#8217;ll be officially married to another technical person. Life passes by when you don&#8217;t pay attention. [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p><img title="I" src="/IMG/Caps/i.png" alt="I" align="left" border="0" hspace="0" vspace="4" /> spoke to my sister today (that&#8217;s her above) one last time before her wedding tomorrow. It&#8217;s hard to believe how fast people grow up. She&#8217;s now managing a team, doing programming while using Debian 11, just like me. Tomorrow she&#8217;ll be officially married to another technical person. Life passes by when you don&#8217;t pay attention. We all grow older, but some take advantage of the time they have on this planet. Some waste it away.</p>
<p>This is me aged 16, back in the days I was playing tennis a lot.</p>
<p><a href="https://schestowitz.com/Weblog/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/roy-age-16.png"><img src="https://schestowitz.com/Weblog/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/roy-age-16.png" alt="Roy Schestowitz aged 16" width="530" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-7605" /></a></p>
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		<title>Self-hosting Paradigm</title>
		<link>https://schestowitz.com/Weblog/archives/2015/05/28/self-hosting-paradigm/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2015 06:25:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[ITH the rapid growth of so-called &#8216;social&#8217; networks and that rather disturbing hype around &#8216;clouds&#8217; usually comes a mindset shift; a lot of people foolishly turn to other parties to not only host &#8212; in the datacentre sense &#8212; their sites (or accounts) but also to manage all of their software and control their data. [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://schestowitz.com/royrianne/gallery/var/resizes/Summer-Outside-the-House/garden-13.jpg?m=1431150092" alt="House" /></p>
<p><img title="W" src="/IMG/Caps/w.png" alt="W" align="left" border="0" hspace="0" vspace="4" />ITH the rapid growth of so-called &#8216;social&#8217; networks and that rather disturbing hype around &#8216;clouds&#8217; usually comes a mindset shift; a lot of people foolishly turn to other parties to not only host &#8212; in the datacentre sense &#8212; their sites (or accounts) but also to manage all of their software and control their data. I have been trying hard to resist that, especially for <a href="http://schestowitz.com/royrianne/gallery/index.php/" title="Roy and Rianne's Wedding and Beyond">photos hosting</a>. Our wedding (and beyond) album now has over 400,000 views and the albums I set up in 2005 (using Gallery) has outlived many PHP changes, albeit with some efforts (code changes and migrations).</p>
<p>People don&#8217;t need surveillance and censorship platforms such as Facebook in order to share photographs. Facebook is people who are lazy and irresponsible, not technically-inept.</p>
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		<title>RIP Grandpa</title>
		<link>https://schestowitz.com/Weblog/archives/2015/01/10/rip-grandpa/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Jan 2015 11:03:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Avner Werner Max Schestowitz, August 29th, 1924 &#8211; January 9th, 2015]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Avner Werner Max Schestowitz, August 29th, 1924 &#8211; January 9th, 2015</em></p>
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